4.6.04

did i miss it?

i never did understand the purpose of a one night stand.
maybe im just not hip enough to be with the times, but a one night stand seems pointless to me.
sure you get your sex (if thats what you really need), but then what? is it a matter of romantic and "sweet" at night and a bitchy person in the morning?
i understand "fuckbuddies" but not one night stands. multiperson masturbation is what i called it once or twice. but masturbation is masturbation, whether it be individual or acompanied. once its over, then what? discard the person like a soiled tissue paper?
maybe im just stupid and out of style but i still believe that sex should be about more than an orgasm. an orgasm can be achieved without a second person being involved. there is an entire industry built around it, men get porn women get toys. shouldnt sex be about more than a momentary attraction?
not to mention that sloppy drunken sex is perhaps the worst version of it available (except perhaps for the noninterested, noninvolved prostitute sex... which i dont think ill ever resort to partaking in)?
at times i tend to agree with the female perspective of men being assholes. sometimes.
so whats the point of a one night stand? anyone?
it wasnt a good night for me, the details of which im sure nobody really cares about)...
so, one night stands... do they serve a purpose?

(im expecting few responses, if any)

3 comments:

mi said...

serves the purpose of experience maybe... and saying "oh yeah... i've had a one night stand"

cbeck said...

"fuckbuddies" never seems to work out quite like you might want it too either.

Karri Bowman said...

one night stands are the symptoms from the root problem of boredom of self and life...at least, that's what they've been for me when i've had them.