this is what ive come to realize after much internal thought and some outside consulting...
knowing a woman's history is akin to eating of the tree of good and evil.
forgive the biblical reference there but its the only reference that made any sense that im aware of. truly though having knowledge of what a person has done inevitably makes it so that you are aware of their capabilities. And knowing that is capable, the tricky thought, the one that keeps you up on certain nights, is, "whats to keep them from doing again?"
Oh sure, people change, and smokers quit. Its the exception rather than the norm.
heres an example:
you know the girl is easy. sleeps around. fun times had by all... what makes you think she wont still be like that even if you are an item (dating, boyfriend/girlfriend, whatever)?
or
girl has cheated on past boyfriends. why are you to be the exception to the rule?
while its true that predicting future actions is downright impossible, past tendencies do point us in the direction of the most probable of events.
so i have some questions that i cant answer on my own.
what is a girl with "history" to do?
are boyfriends of easy/cheating girls prone to paranoia?
or are we all living in ignorance of our partners past?

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in a big part, we are all in ignorance...
but i find it hard to be attracted to someone with "a past"
I guess everyone has a past...it's inevitable. I guess it all depends on whether or not we accept the other person's past and how much we trust that person.
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